Not Being Loved on Valentine's Day

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Unloved on Valentine's Day - Single Mom Heart in Darkness
Valentine's Day may be one of the most dreaded holidays for the divorced and separated, maybe more so for Christians who understand the meaning of Valentine's Day and what Saint Valentine, a man who strove to bring Love to the world, would have wanted his special day to mean.

Today we associate Valentine's Day with cards and candy hearts, bouquets and lingerie. We say we celebrate the Love we have for a significant other by giving them overpriced, obligatory flowers and oversized teddy bears advertised with sexual innuendoes and thinly veiled promises of what a man will get in return.
To make matters worse, when you don't have a special person in your life, Valentine's Day can make you feel worth less or find you searching internet dating sites and settling mistaking Mr. Right Now for Mr. Right rather than choosing to be alone on another Valentine's Day.

That's because we know Love is everything, the greatest of all is Love. Without Love You Are Nothing Especially on Valentine's Day!

Even the Bible tells us Love is everything. In Sunday's second reading, Saint Paul's Letter to the Colossians, we see Love. Is. Everything. Without Love we gain nothing. Without Love we are nothing!

As a single Mom of five boys, suddenly abandoned during the pregnancy of our fifth little guy, I know the ache many Catholics will feel this Valentine's Day.

Please join me for the rest of this post and some Hope for the Love you have on Single Mom Smiling!

God Bless...

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