The Dangers of Techno Pacifers

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My contribution to TENDER TIDINGS Spring 2015  is The Danger of Techno Pacifiers. ALL the articles are excellent in this free parenting resource for gentle, intentional, and attachment-minded parents:
For most modern families living in apartments, townhouses, or even the suburbs, it takes a conscious effort to ensure little ones connect with nature and animals and, as a result, connect with God. Nature is suffused with the Presence of the Creator because God sustains and controls nature.

 It seems to me children need to go outside where they can delight in the smallest details because their hearts sense the Spirit of God and His joy when they are in nature. Even adults are growing increasingly discontent with the hectic pace of the 21st century because it is an existence more plugged into technology than to people. Many are more comfortable texting each other than speaking face to face or even talking on the phone.

This disconnect has devastating repercussions, also affecting our relationship to nature, but most especially our relationship with God. Man is losing the ability to even engage in authentic prayer because prayer is all about communion, the ability to relate. continue reading

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  1. Melanie Jean Juneau8:32 pm, March 14, 2015

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    Thanks for that Melanie. We may not know the neurological impact of technology and screen life on the developing brain until the next generation. Jane Healey who wrote No Contact would agree. Children need to move in their environment in order to develop the brain. 'Nothing enters the brain without first passing through the senses' according to Aristotle. For a child to sit sedentary in front of a screen cut off from the real world has a few parallels to cave dwelling. Mary Murphy

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